Forty-five days behind you, forty-five ahead. Today we check your gap — and I want to talk you through it properly, because most mamas measure wrong and then panic.
📏 HOW TO MEASURE — PROPERLY
Do this first thing, before your session.
1️⃣ Lie on your back, knees bent, feet flat.
2️⃣ Rest your fingers across your midline just above your belly button — fingers resting lightly first, before you move.
3️⃣ Now lift your head slightly. Chin toward chest, shoulders staying down.
4️⃣ Feel for the muscle edges either side. Measure the width in finger-widths.
5️⃣ Move up and down the midline to find the widest point.
Two mistakes nearly everyone makes:
Lifting your head too high — this makes the gap read narrower than it really is.
Fingers pointing across your body instead of toward your feet — you end up measuring the wrong direction.
⚠️ IF THE NUMBER HASN'T MOVED
That is normal at forty-five days. It isn't a sign this isn't working.
Connective tissue remodels slowly — slower than muscle, slower than fitness, far slower than any of us want. Some of you will see width change in the final forty-five days. Some won't, and will still end up with a core that functions completely differently.
Judge today by the firmness and by what your body does now. Your back holding out longer. Sneezing without bracing. Getting off the floor without planning it.
Those are the honest measures. 💛
Note two things in your phone: Width: how many fingers at the widest point Firmness: soft, medium or springy Then we check again on Day 90. Two numbers, not one. Reply with the firmness word only — soft, medium or springy. Keep the number for yourself if you'd rather. 💛
Vitamin C builds collagen — the exact tissue we're healing. It also helps you absorb iron from dal, spinach and rajma, and low iron is why you're flattened by 4pm.
📌 TODAY'S FOCUS
Forty-five days, mamas. Halfway.
Some of you will measure today and feel disappointed. I know, because I did exactly that in my own healing — forty-five days of honest work and the number barely moved.
What I didn't notice at the time was that I'd stopped bracing to get off the floor. That my back lasted until bedtime. That I'd sneezed in the kitchen that morning and not thought about it once.
The number is the slowest thing to change and the loudest thing in your head. Don't let it decide how today feels.
Forty-five more days. The second half is where the width often starts to follow. 💪💛

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📏 Gap re-check — see below ✅ 💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ Steps: 2000
💛 Juhi Love💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ 🚶♀️ Walk — 8,000–9,000 steps ✅
💛 Juhi Love📏 Gap re-check — see below ✅ 💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅
💛 Juhi Love💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ 🚶♀️ Walk — 8,000–9,000 steps ✅
💛 Juhi Love📏 Gap re-check — see below ✅ 💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ 🚶♀️ Walk — 8,000–9,000 steps ✅ Steps: 3000
💛 Juhi Love💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ Steps: 2530 💛 I have started 2 days back seriously so will report after 45 days
💛 Juhi Love💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ 🥗 🍋 A squeeze of lemon on your dal ✅ 🥗 🍅 Tomato in your sabzi ✅ 🥗 🥬 Half your plate — veggies ✅ 🥗 💧 Sip water through the day 💛 ✅
💛 Juhi Love📏 Gap re-check — see below ✅ 💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ 🚶♀️ Walk — 8,000–9,000 steps ✅ 🥗 🍅 Tomato in your sabzi ✅ 🥗 🍊 Amla, guava or orange with a meal ✅ 🥗 💧 Sip water through the day 💛 ✅
💛 Juhi LoveKeep it up 👍
📏 Gap re-check — see below ✅ 💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅
💛 Juhi Love📏 Gap re-check — see below ✅ 💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ 🌟 2 finger above and 2 on navel Soft
💛 Juhi LoveSlow and correct is the key
📏 Gap re-check — see below ✅ 💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 3 × 30 seconds Wall Sit ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅ 🚶♀️ Walk — 8,000–9,000 steps ✅ 🥗 🍋 A squeeze of lemon on your dal ✅ 🥗 🍊 Amla, guava or orange with a meal ✅ 🥗 🥬 Half your plate — veggies ✅ 🥗 🌾 A quarter — carbs ✅ 🥗 💧 Sip water through the day 💛 ✅ Steps: 25min
💛 Juhi LoveKeep it up dear 🫰
💨 10 slow 360° Breaths ✅ 12 Standing March (each side) — weaker side first ✅ 10 Heel Slides (each leg) ✅ 8 Glute Bridges — 7-second hold ✅ 2 Single-Leg Glute bridge ✅
💛 Juhi Love👍